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What Does A $450 MM Painting And Your Vacation Have In Common?

In 2005, Leonardo’s Salvator Mundi was purchased at a Louisianna estate auction for $10,000. After an extensive restoration, it sold for $450 million in 2017. The painting’s [...]

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24-Hour Market, Your 24-Hour Performance

Recently, the SEC granted preliminary approval for extended around-the-clock trading hours. My clients reflected what this meant for the already fragile boundaries between work and personal life [...]

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From Leadership Strengths To Corporate Liabilities

In Zurich last week, my conversations with senior clients centered on leadership qualities and how, at times, they can become liabilities. It deserves your attention. Leadership traits [...]

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The Hidden Cost of Suppressing Emotions

Recently, my attention was drawn to this man on the shores of Danube river. What story does this tell you? The name of this sculpture is The [...]

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Resilience Is A Muscle

Resilience is not the toughness of a bone. It is the flexibility of a muscle. Resilience is how we survive not only serious hardships, but also uncertainty, [...]

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An Invisible Self

Why do you keep falling into the same relationship patterns? Why do you have the same conflicts? Why DIY books don’t seem to fix your problems? Let [...]

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What Leaders Adapt From Sports

As a one-time figure skater (not ISU ranked— I put my priorities on schooling), I’ve carried away a lot from those days of applied sports psychology. Recently, [...]

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Impostor or Not Good Enough ?

Lately, many of my conversations with clients have centered on a familiar theme: impostor syndrome. It often shows up subtly—difficulty owning achievements, persistent self-doubt despite clear results, [...]

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Power Creates Isolation: The Ivory Tower of the C-Suite

As leaders rise to the top of the executive ranks, something shifts. It becomes… quieter. Not necessarily by choice. Not because relationships were weak. In fact, many [...]

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Understanding Your Inner “Code”

What has been “coded” into your “hard drive” since childhood and early youth? It shows up in small, almost automatic ways. One anecdotal example; I grew up [...]

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Negative feedback loops.

Sometimes the most productive thing you can do… is pause. I encourage my clients to take time off to refocus and reset. Last week, I did exactly [...]

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Efficiency Is Ability To Say NO. To What?

As our careers progress, our personal roles evolve, our ambitions expand, time becomes our scarcest resource. Add to that the constant presence of our phones and social [...]

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Our Supressed Emotions

At a group session with clients this week, we explored the role of emotions in our lives and leadership. Emotions are essential to human survival. They are [...]

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Permission to fail…

Even my most successful clients fall into this one habit from time to time: They use negative internal language — shaming, criticizing, and putting down themselves while [...]

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High Performance/Burnout. Where Do You Want To Be?

Capable, productive, and committed… yet short of air. This simple framework helps my clients clarify where they are now — and where they would want to operate. [...]

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Confidence…a lesson from Ace Greenberg

I will never forget a conversation with the late Ace Greenberg, CEO of Bear Stearns. We were discussing Argentina’s default. He asked me seemingly basic questions until [...]

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Uncertainty Kills The Markets…And You

Markets hate uncertainty (Fed Chair?…Covid?…WFC?…)So does the human body. Uncertainty is more threatening than predictable stress. When we don’t know what’s coming, the brain shifts into constant [...]

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The Power of Vulnerability

Attending a recent leadership forum, listening to polished stories of success, I found myself reflecting. On paper and on stage, leaders can look invincible — tough-minded, accomplished, [...]

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Confidence Isn’t a Gift.

Most of us, in one way or another, strive to feel more confident. We often admire those who seem to embody confidence so naturally. In my coaching [...]

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Burnout Part III (Ikigai)

Burnout is not a failure. But it does take courage to admit you’re experiencing it — and even more courage to seek help. You have courage. More [...]

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Rethinking Burnout (Part Two)

  Today I offer a small practice for you to try, read on. Burnout rarely appears overnight — and it doesn’t disappear that way either. It  begins [...]

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Rethinking Burnout (Part One)

A client recently came to me feeling completely drained. He had spent years building a career he once loved — yet lately, he felt exhausted, irritable, and [...]

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It Began As A Mistake

In life, in leadership, and especially in the C-suite, mistakes are not endpoints—they are vantage points. Coaching reframes them as strategic assets: proof of courage, evidence of [...]

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Inner Voice: From Critic to Ally

Masaru Emoto famously explored how water might respond to words of kindness versus words of unkindness. He reported that exposed to positive words, it formed beautiful crystalline [...]

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